Sex Mistakes That Women Make by Shawn Hill
You don't have to be frustrated and unhappy with your sex life. If you are it may be because you are making the same mistakes again and again. Correcting these sexual mistakes should help you have a more happy and fulfilling sex life.
1. Sex on the 1st date. If you make this sexual mistake, you will only be seen as someone to have sex with. If that is all you want from the relationship, that is fine. If you are wanting more, don't make this mistake. I don't care what men say, when you have sex on the first date you are seen differently.
2. Not being assertive in bed. This sexual mistake is very easy to correct. Speak up. Tell him what you want, how you want it and where. Too many women don't say anything, hoping he will notice. He wont.
Also part of being assertive is being more active in bed. Don't just lay there. Men hate that. Get on top, get in front and kiss him all over. The more you are into it, the more he will be into it. Most men want to see you have a good time, if for no other reason than there own ego.
3. Boring. This sexual mistake could really cost you. The same old way gets old after a while. Don't wait for him to change things. Take the lead and make the change. You don't have to play "nurse" to be exciting.
Rent movies, read books or ask friends. Keep your sex life new and exciting. This will help you because it gets boring for women as well as for men. Don't wait on the guy to change things. Make the change and get the reward.
4. The biggest mistake is picking the wrong guy for what you want. Don't pick some conservative guy if you are looking for a wild time in bed. Also, don't pick Casanova if you a looking for a committed relationship. Too many women pick men hoping they will change. He wont. He likes being the way he is. Know what you want and be patient enough to wait for it.
You can have the happy rewarding sex life you want. If you stop making those sexual mistakes, you will find more love and peace than you thought was possible. Not only that, but you will move closer to finding the just the guy for you.
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Click here to find out the best way to put all this together. You will truly give your man the pleasure that he wants and you will get yours too. Remember the best way to make this happen is by finding a man that is already sexy. The best place to find a sexy man is here.
jeudi 5 juillet 2007
Helping Your Man Last Longer During Sex
Helping Your Man Last Longer During Sex by Shawn Hill
One of a man's biggest fears is having an orgasm too quickly during sex. This will leave him and the woman unfulfilled. Sure he would have had an orgasm, but she will not be happy with the brief time that it took. Women generally take longer to have an orgasm and this will certainly ruin the mood.
There are things that you can do to help your man last longer. This will please him and you. So make sure that you get the enjoyment that you need and give him a stroke to his ego. He will thank you for it.
1. Go Slow. This is very important. This is one instance where speed kills. It will kill the moment, the passion and the mood. Don't let this happen. Go at a slow pace and this will prolong the time it takes for him to have an orgasm.
Sometimes it is the man rushing. This is when you have to take control and let him know that you want to enjoy the moment. If he has a history of having an orgasm too fast you will be helping him and yourself.
2. Variety is the spice of life. The same speed tends to generate a build up of tension. This tension is what leads to a orgasm. By building up and slowing down you will delay the time of the orgasm. This will prolong your and your mates enjoyment.
Another part of variety is taking turns. Focus on him and then allow him to focus on you. This taking turns will please both of you and also prolong the time of the man having an orgasm while maintaining the fun of the evening.
3. Lubrication. Very important. This will not only add to the length of time before an orgasm it will also add to the comfort for your man. He will appreciate your thoughtfulness. There is little pleasure in high friction on sensitive skin. Ouch.
The best one to use is KY. It washes off in water and that makes the clean up easier.
4. Allow him to have and orgasm first. This takes really knowing your man. If he is the selfish type he will have an orgasm first and forget about you. If he is not this will help him.
This helps because after a guy has an orgasm, it takes a while before his batteries are recharged enough to have another one. During this time he can be pleasing you and the second one should take longer for your guy than the first.
5. Have the right attitude. This can be a very embarrassing situation for your man. While for you it is unpleasant because you didn't fully get a chance to enjoy yourself, for him it is a blow to his ego.
The right attitude is supportive and passionate. Men hate sympathy. Don't say, "Oh, it is all right." We know it is not. Just keep going on with the session and find ways that the can continue to please you.
About the Author
Click here to find out the best way to put all this together. You will truly give your man the pleasure that he wants and you will get yours too. Remember the best way to make this happen is by finding a man that is already sexy. The best place to find a sexy man is here.
One of a man's biggest fears is having an orgasm too quickly during sex. This will leave him and the woman unfulfilled. Sure he would have had an orgasm, but she will not be happy with the brief time that it took. Women generally take longer to have an orgasm and this will certainly ruin the mood.
There are things that you can do to help your man last longer. This will please him and you. So make sure that you get the enjoyment that you need and give him a stroke to his ego. He will thank you for it.
1. Go Slow. This is very important. This is one instance where speed kills. It will kill the moment, the passion and the mood. Don't let this happen. Go at a slow pace and this will prolong the time it takes for him to have an orgasm.
Sometimes it is the man rushing. This is when you have to take control and let him know that you want to enjoy the moment. If he has a history of having an orgasm too fast you will be helping him and yourself.
2. Variety is the spice of life. The same speed tends to generate a build up of tension. This tension is what leads to a orgasm. By building up and slowing down you will delay the time of the orgasm. This will prolong your and your mates enjoyment.
Another part of variety is taking turns. Focus on him and then allow him to focus on you. This taking turns will please both of you and also prolong the time of the man having an orgasm while maintaining the fun of the evening.
3. Lubrication. Very important. This will not only add to the length of time before an orgasm it will also add to the comfort for your man. He will appreciate your thoughtfulness. There is little pleasure in high friction on sensitive skin. Ouch.
The best one to use is KY. It washes off in water and that makes the clean up easier.
4. Allow him to have and orgasm first. This takes really knowing your man. If he is the selfish type he will have an orgasm first and forget about you. If he is not this will help him.
This helps because after a guy has an orgasm, it takes a while before his batteries are recharged enough to have another one. During this time he can be pleasing you and the second one should take longer for your guy than the first.
5. Have the right attitude. This can be a very embarrassing situation for your man. While for you it is unpleasant because you didn't fully get a chance to enjoy yourself, for him it is a blow to his ego.
The right attitude is supportive and passionate. Men hate sympathy. Don't say, "Oh, it is all right." We know it is not. Just keep going on with the session and find ways that the can continue to please you.
About the Author
Click here to find out the best way to put all this together. You will truly give your man the pleasure that he wants and you will get yours too. Remember the best way to make this happen is by finding a man that is already sexy. The best place to find a sexy man is here.
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